Just thinking about what makes someone popular?
What contributes to feeling part of the group?
What kind of characteristics does a person need to be invited to a social gathering?
What makes someone exclude you when you know others who were invited to an event?
I just found out that there are two separate parties going on within a wide group of friends, not super close, but definitely on chatting level and pretty much peers in a group. We were not invited. It's hard not to wonder what contributed? My husband's position? My husband is a particularly good conversationalist. I can hold my own. I don't know. I'm kind of struggling on this one and feeling left out. Maybe it's because we don't reciprocate enough. But, I always send thank you's and I always try to contribute to a party somehow. Maybe it's age. We're on the upper end of the one group, but about the same age as the other one.
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